Burial & Disposal of Ashes at Sea

Burial at Sea

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Disposal of Ashes at Sea - A gentle Farewell

Introduction:

Disposing of ashes at sea is a beautiful and symbolic way to say goodbye to a loved one, allowing them to rest in the vast expanse of the ocean. This ceremony is often chosen for its deep emotional and spiritual significance, offering a sense of peace and connection to nature.

Why Choose to Scatter Ashes at Sea?

The ocean symbolises eternity, freedom, and nature, making it an appealing final resting place for many.
It can be an alternative for those who want a more informal or private ceremony outside of traditional burial sites

The Process:

Choosing a Location: Many people choose a special place that held significance for the deceased.
Legal Requirements: Although scattering ashes at sea is more flexible than burial, it's still regulated. Most countries allow it but may require a notification to local environmental agencies or adherence to specific guidelines.
Ceremony: The scattering ceremony can be personalised, with readings, music, or simply a quiet moment. Families may choose to release flowers or eco-friendly mementos alongside the ashes.

Common Traditions:

Many families take to the water on a boat or from a cliffside or a local beach.
Some choose to hold a small service or gathering before scattering the ashes.

Conclusion:

The disposal of ashes at sea is a serene way to honour a loved one’s connection to nature and the ocean. It offers a touching farewell and an opportunity to let them rest in an environment of beauty, expansiveness, and tranquility.

Disposal of Ashes at Sea - A Gentle Farewell

The following two accounts of scattering ashes from a boat and from the shore, convey the solemnity and unique nature of these ceremonies.

1. A Recent Scattering of the Ashes from a Boat:

A recent scattering of ashes took place from a boat in Plymouth Sound. The vessel, a Humber 40, is frequently used for such ceremonies.

Family members and friends assembled at the marina entrance carrying the deceased ashes and red roses. The captain met them and guided them down and on to the boat.

After leaving the marina, the group discussed who would pour the ashes into the sea. Each family member and friend was given a red rose as part of the ceremony. Once the boat reached the agreed location, the captain positioned the boat facing into the wind. At this moment, two family members poured the ashes into the sea from the back of the boat. It was a solemn and reflective moment.

Afterward, the boat came to a stop, allowing each person to throw a red rose into the water, one by one. This gave everyone a quiet, personal moment to reflect or say a prayer, creating a serene and poignant conclusion to the ceremony.

2. A Recent Scattering of Ashes from the Shore:

This scattering of ashes took place along the shore, with the family and friends choosing to release the ashes at the time of an outgoing tide.

The ashes were placed in a plastic bag with small holes at the bottom. As the group walked along the beach, the ashes gradually sifted out of the bag and onto the sand, to be carried away by the tide. This simple yet poignant act allowed for a reflective and personal moment for all involved.